Your kids are done with temple lights for awhile.
Seriously- they just don't enjoy it anymore.
Let it go.
Let them rediscover it one day in the future for themselves.
Probably when they are dragging their own children there :)
But for now, that dream is over.
Don't take it personally.
Just file it away with some of those lost idealistic dreams...the ones that don't really matter in the big scheme of things anyway.
The ones that involve scripture study where everyone wants to be there-
And happiness during chore time.
Never gonna happen.
Who could tire of this?